I have tried both a double and a queen bed, and although it's only a 6 inch difference, it feels *much* bigger. Personally, I would not get a king because, first of all, a bigger bed = more hassle (more effort to change sheets, bigger blankets are harder to fit into a washing machine, etc.) and second and most important for me: I feel very cramped when furniture is too close together and doesn't let me easily walk around.
That said, I sleep alone, and apart from a couple sleepovers, I have never had to think about how much space I'd need if I was sharing a bed with someone.
I think a queen would be enough, but if you're unsure, go mattress shopping together. Mattress stores let you lie down and try them out, so while you're testing them for comfort, you can also see how you feel about the size. I'm not sure how you'd feel about that...I'm a little self-conscious myself, but even if you just sit down on the edge, seeing/feeling the dimensions in person would give you a much better idea than numbers alone could.
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Date: 2017-02-17 08:37 pm (UTC)That said, I sleep alone, and apart from a couple sleepovers, I have never had to think about how much space I'd need if I was sharing a bed with someone.
I think a queen would be enough, but if you're unsure, go mattress shopping together. Mattress stores let you lie down and try them out, so while you're testing them for comfort, you can also see how you feel about the size. I'm not sure how you'd feel about that...I'm a little self-conscious myself, but even if you just sit down on the edge, seeing/feeling the dimensions in person would give you a much better idea than numbers alone could.